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Can You Find Happiness By Helping Your Neighbors?

According to a University of California professor, the happiest people are those who are often the first to offer helping hands to others. University of California, Riverside psychology professor Sonja Lyubomirsky studies what actually makes people happy, and the answers aren’t necessarily what you might expect. In her book The How of Happiness, Lyubomirsky identifies 8 things that the happiest people have in common:

1. They devote a great amount of time to their family and friends, nurturing and enjoying those relationships. 2. They are comfortable expressing gratitude for all they have. 3. They are often the first to offer helping hands to coworkers and passersby. 4. They practice optimism when imagining their futures. 5. They savor life’s pleasures and try to live in the present moment. 6. They make physical exercise a weekly and even daily habit. 7. They are deeply committed to lifelong goals and ambitions (e.g., fighting fraud, building cabinets, or teaching their children their deeply held values). 8. Last but not least, the happiest people do have their share of stresses, crises, and even tragedies. They may become just as distressed and emotional in such circumstances as you or I, but their secret weapon is the poise and strength they show in coping in the face of challenge. Her research suggests that people who practice such happiness-boosting activities regularly, and under the right conditions, become happier people. Click here to read more. (via Barking up the Wrong Tree)

76-year-old Neighbor Inspires Obese Teen to Lose Weight

When Charles D’Angelo was a teenager, he was morbidly obese, bullied, and afraid for his future. His life changed for the better on the day he befriended his 76-year-old neighbor. His neighbor inspired him to change his life and led by example – she worked out at the gym every day, took walks in the park, and generally led a healthy life. She taught Charles to change his mind set in order to attain the promising future awaiting him. With his neighbor’s help, Charles made a radical shift in his philosophy, attitude, and habits. In two years, he lost 160 pounds, and transformed his life. He is now a weight-loss coach and author, passing his neighbor’s inspiration forward to inspire others daily. Click here to read the full story.

76-year-old Neighbor Inspires Obese Teen to Lose Weight

When Charles D’Angelo was a teenager, he was morbidly obese, bullied, and afraid for his future. His life changed for the better on the day he befriended his 76-year-old neighbor. His neighbor inspired him to change his life and led by example – she worked out at the gym every day, took walks in the park, and generally led a healthy life. She taught Charles to change his mind set in order to attain the promising future awaiting him. With his neighbor’s help, Charles made a radical shift in his philosophy, attitude, and habits. In two years, he lost 160 pounds, and transformed his life. He is now a weight-loss coach and author, passing his neighbor’s inspiration forward to inspire others daily.

Click here to read the full story.

Be Inspired By Your Noisy Neighbors

Ever find yourself not knowing quite what to say to your noisy neighbor? An article in The New Yorker points to a recently discovered cache of Marcel Proust’s letters to his noisy upstairs neighbor. The letters show how seemingly mundane annoyances can be a catalyst for artistic expression.

The letters are playful and witty. Proust complains of excess noise from upstairs by inquiring, “If your charming son, innocent of the noise that martyrizes me, is nearby, please give him my best wishes.” Along with a note requesting that hammering occur in the evening rather than the morning, for example, Proust sent a gift of four pheasants to soften the blow. And yet, despite such nagging, Proust’s comment on hearing of a death in his neighbor’s family speaks to how our neighbors sneak into our lives and our affections. He writes “And I’ve so fallen into the habit, without knowing you, of sympathizing with your sorrows and joys, through the partition where I feel you invisible and present, that the news of the death of Monsieur your brother has deeply distressed me.” The next time you are annoyed by a neighbor’s noise, consider seeing the noise as an inspiration and write a charming letter – just like Proust!

 

Click here to read the full story.

Be Inspired By Your Noisy Neighbors

Ever find yourself not knowing quite what to say to your noisy neighbor? An article in The New Yorker points to a recently discovered cache of Marcel Proust’s letters to his noisy upstairs neighbor. The letters show how seemingly mundane annoyances can be a catalyst for artistic expression. The letters are playful and witty. Proust complains of excess noise from upstairs by inquiring, “If your charming son, innocent of the noise that martyrizes me, is nearby, please give him my best wishes.” Along with a note requesting that hammering occur in the evening rather than the morning, for example, Proust sent a gift of four pheasants to soften the blow. And yet, despite such nagging, Proust’s comment on hearing of a death in his neighbor’s family speaks to how our neighbors sneak into our lives and our affections. He writes “And I’ve so fallen into the habit, without knowing you, of sympathizing with your sorrows and joys, through the partition where I feel you invisible and present, that the news of the death of Monsieur your brother has deeply distressed me.” The next time you are annoyed by a neighbor’s noise, consider seeing the noise as an inspiration and write a charming letter – just like Proust! Click here to read the full story.

Can lunch change the world?

Almost four million British people ate lunch with their neighbors yesterday. June 1st marked the sixth annual celebration of The Big Lunch, an initiative that aims to get as many people across the UK as possible to eat lunch with their neighbors on the first Sunday in June. The project aims to feed community spirit, build stronger neighborhoods, and combat social isolation by providing a forum for neighbors to get to know each other and become involved in their communities. The simple act of neighbors eating lunch together once a year is having real positive impacts on communities across the UK. Nearly all participants report feeling closer to their neighbors afterwards, and two thirds go on to hold other events in their communities. Sometimes a little lunch can do a lot of good. Click here for the full story, and visit thebiglunch.com for ideas and materials to organize your own neighborhood lunch.

 

Can lunch change the world?

Almost four million British people ate lunch with their neighbors yesterday. June 1st marked the sixth annual celebration of The Big Lunch, an initiative that aims to get as many people across the UK as possible to eat lunch with their neighbors on the first Sunday in June. The project aims to feed community spirit, build stronger neighborhoods, and combat social isolation by providing a forum for neighbors to get to know each other and become involved in their communities. The simple act of neighbors eating lunch together once a year is having real positive impacts on communities across the UK. Nearly all participants report feeling closer to their neighbors afterwards, and two thirds go on to hold other events in their communities. Sometimes a little lunch can do a lot of good. Click here for the full story, and visit thebiglunch.com for ideas and materials to organize your own neighborhood lunch.

 

 

How did you help your neighbors this Memorial Day?

For many, Memorial Day is about beaches and barbeques. But in Kent County, Delaware this holiday weekend, a community came together to honor veterans by helping their neighbors. After a tornado hit the region on Thursday evening, neighbors joined forces to help the community recover. Marydel Fire Chief Buffy Madden found the communal support a fitting part of the day.  “This is the American way right here. I mean they’re in need,” said Madden. “How can we enjoy the holiday when someone else is in need.” Or as one girl helping her grandfather put it “Since it’s Memorial Day we figured we’d come out and help him since he’s a veteran.” Click here for the full story.

How did you help your neighbors this Memorial Day?

For many, Memorial Day is about beaches and barbeques. But in Kent County, Delaware this holiday weekend, a community came together to honor veterans by helping their neighbors. After a tornado hit the region on Thursday evening, neighbors joined forces to help the community recover. Marydel Fire Chief Buffy Madden found the communal support a fitting part of the day.  “This is the American way right here. I mean they’re in need,” said Madden. “How can we enjoy the holiday when someone else is in need.”

Or as one girl helping her grandfather put it “Since it’s Memorial Day we figured we’d come out and help him since he’s a veteran.” Click here for the full story.

Chairs = Love

After 64-year-old Charlie George was diagnosed with leukemia, his neighbor Shellye Arnold noticed his usual walks around the block with his dogs were becoming increasingly difficult and decided to help. She started “Chairs for Charlie,” placing specially marked chairs along Charlie’s regular walking route so that he could stop and rest. Other neighbors soon joined in the cause, adding extra chairs and even water bowls for Charlie’s dogs. Because of his neighbors, Charlie now has 20 places to rest along his walking route and the strength to keep walking. “We don’t have to sit in them to get energized,” Charlie said. “The thought of putting those chairs out makes you think about that there are other people and they care about you and watch out for you and try to help.” Click here to read the full story.

Our Mission: Inspiring Our Neighbors

We provide rental housing for over 1,200 people, and our staff believes that housing is the most fundamental of needs. Almost all of our staff lives in our communities, and each morning we are there as residents embark on their day. We expect our residents to pass on to others the good service, good deeds, and acts of kindness we provide every day. Our staff works hard to inspire our residents so that they can inspire others. Like a pebble dropped into a pond, the staff’s deeds spread across our properties, to our neighbors, down our blocks, and into the entire region.